We Got Married While Apart — Here's How It Worked

We Got Married While Apart — Here's How It Worked

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Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from separate countries.

When you’re in a cross-border relationship, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Paperwork, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel stressful.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t realistic.

Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.

At first, we thought it was only symbolic. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah allow fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re 100% valid.

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We reserved our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my home office. My spouse-to-be said it from their military base.

It was unforgettable. It was easy. And it was ours.

The officiant made it feel official. The ceremony was quick, here but powerful. And we received our legal marriage certificate right after — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle immigration documents, and every agency has approved it — no issues at all.

If you’re dealing with distance, don’t wait. Online marriage is recognized, and it’s a modern way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that weddings don’t need venues — and that what matters most is the commitment.

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